An exploration of the connection between stress, emotional repression, and physical illness, with a compassionate approach to mind–body health.
Topic#
Stress, emotional repression, and physical illness.
Approach#
Psychosomatic medicine; links unexpressed emotions with health deterioration, encouraging the recognition and healthy expression of boundaries.
Why Read It#
- Shows how saying “yes” when you feel “no” impacts health.
- Presents real clinical cases connecting mind and body.
- Offers strategies to recognize physical signs as early warnings.
Common Objections#
- “There isn’t always a causal relationship”: presented as a framework for exploration, not an absolute diagnosis.
- “It’s too psychological”: seeks to balance medical perspective with emotional insight.
For Whom#
Anyone who suspects their physical health is affected by how they handle emotions and boundaries.
Not For#
Those seeking purely biomedical explanations without considering emotional context.
Key Ideas#
- Saying “yes” when you feel “no” erodes well-being.
- Constant self-denial creates chronic stress and weakens the immune system.
- Listening to and respecting bodily signals is preventive care.
How to Apply#
- Before committing to something, observe your breathing and body tension.
- Practice a kind but firm “no” in safe situations.
- Record physical symptoms alongside significant emotional events.
Complementary Books#
- El mito de la normalidad — for cultural and social context.
- On Self-Hatred — to work on self-criticism and emotional exhaustion.

